It all starts with questons

For those that are looking for understanding or ideas on how they can have a successful friendship. I have been working on what I can do as a friend. So far I have come to the conclusion of just listening to that friend and just being there when they need it. Those that know what I am talking about will know what I mean, It does take time to create some successful friendships and some of those will either last or they won't. So here are some ideas for building and growing a strong friendship among new people, new friends, and family

Tips:

1. Be ready to come out of your comfort zone and try something new. When meeting new people do not be shy when it comes to asking their name and if they are in school to ask them what they are studying. You can also ask them what their hobbies or interests are, I will give a example: what kind of music do you like to listen too? and that is how you can get the conversation rolling.

2. Listen to them as they are talking and ask them questions like what is your favorite color?  what is your favorite food? Those kind of questions and then finding what you have in common. 

3. Be truthful and openminded to new things. When I tell new people that I like to do country swing dancing and they look at me like I am crazy for doing something that is unheard of. Once in a while they will ask me what moves I can teach them, or if I can help them with the basics of each move. 

4. Getting to know someone is hard and it does take time. Also, it creates new opportunities meet people and to get to know them. I have also seen somewhat of the same tips for relationships amongst couples and how they get to know each other. 

Friendship is a two way street and when you work on the basics of the friendship it grows and becomes stronger.